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The Lark: Vol 4, Issue 11, December 2024

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The Historical Society

by Jeanne Medeiros

“Mom, there’s nothing to do! We’re so bored!!”

How we yearned for that ten-week summer vacation the whole long, boring school year! And how its beauty faded rapidly by say, early July. We were city kids with no access to a pool or a playground or a park or a day camp to fill the endless summer hours. There were a bunch of us on our street, Summerfield, and around the block on Bigelow, and we were all bored, bored, bored. Sometimes we organized a neighborhood game of Kick the Can or Freeze Tag or Hide and Seek or kickball. There were minor expeditions to the Highland 5 and 10 for penny candy and cheap toys like Chinese finger traps or cap guns. And there were other destinations, like the tiny neighborhood grocery store we all called “Tom Ward’s”, run by the always-grumpy Tom Ward who sold us popsicles, fudgsicles, and Hoodsie cups.

But there were lots of unfilled hours, lots and lots of them. Hence – “Mom, we’re bored!”

“Go to the Fall River Historical Society,” she ventured. Oh well, it was better than nothing, so off we went, a motley crew consisting of my brother Tommy, my cousin Debbie, a couple of the Saunders kids, my buddy Joyce Miranda, and me. We walked the mile or so from our neighborhood to the stately granite mansion on Rock Street in the Highlands, Fall River’s only posh neighborhood.

We rang the bell and were greeted by the sour expressions of the prim and proper Yankee ladies who ran the place, unhappy to see this gaggle of kids who surely would not appreciate the grandeur of Fall River’s history. For these ladies who considered themselves Fall River’s elites, this history was a fascinating microcosm of the industrial revolution, replete with technological innovations, demographic peculiarities, and steamships.

But to us kids, Fall River history meant one thing – Lizzie Borden. After all, it was our hometown murderess who really put us on the map, wasn’t it? Didn’t every kid in the United States jump rope to

“Lizzie Borden took an axe
and gave her mother forty whacks.
When she saw what she had done,
she gave her father forty-one.”

She was our gory claim to fame. She was buried right in our neighborhood in Oak Grove Cemetery, a favorite place to ride our bikes. Do we really have to hear about the founding families of Fall River and the development of textile mills? Talk about dull!

But the mighty dowagers of the Historical Society were in control. We were dragged through each and every room of the mansion, forced to look at re-created parlors of rich people we had no interest in, hearing about their sumptuous clothing, the expensive musical instruments they owned, the elaborate table settings they imported from wherever, the elegant parties they attended.

Just when we were on the verge of tears, we reached the last room on the tour, the only one we’d come to see – the Lizzie Borden room!!

Just a little recap about our girl Lizzie. On August 4, 1892, her father Andrew and step-mother Abby were hacked to death with a hatchet. The only ones home at the time were Lizzie and the Irish maid, Bridget, and there were no signs of a forced entry. Given that Bridget was outside washing windows all morning, suspicion soon fell on Lizzie, the 32-year-old spinster who was known to dote on her father and detest her step-mother. Since Andrew Borden was one of the wealthiest men in Fall River, with an estimated net worth of about 10 million in today’s dollars, and since the crime was so grisly, Lizzie’s subsequent trial was the OJ Simpson case of its day. Despite quite convincing evidence of her guilt, Lizzie was ultimately acquitted by a jury of upper-crust men who just could not believe that this wealthy Sunday school teacher could have committed such a heinous act. Many others saw it differently, and the case remains one of the biggest “who-dun-its” in American crime lore.

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The Historical Society’s Lizzie collection was worth the wait! Seared into my memory are the gruesome crime scene photos showing the butchered bodies, pictures of the crushed skulls that were entered into evidence at the trial, and the blood-spattered bedspread from the bed Abby was making when she was attacked. Every kid’s dream, right?

I don’t know why we were such ghouls, but we were. Why are all the true crime novels and miniseries so popular? Why are we drawn to this? I’ve heard various theories – that there’s an innate fascination with violence and evil, that these cases present intriguing puzzles to be solved, or that these stories somehow inoculate us against our own worst fears. The ethics of these forms of entertainment concern me now. Are we using someone’s pain and death for our own pleasure? Where’s the empathy?

None of these concerns entered into my 10-year-old brain. We were just excited to be so close to the horror- right in our own boring hometown! As far as most of Fall River, including us morbid kids, were concerned, Lizzie got away with murder most foul.

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Me vs Amazon, aka a Tale of David and Goliath

by Jane Lancaster

I’ll start this story at the beginning: the closure of East Side Market. I live near Wayland Square, so my nearest alternative to starving (or driving two miles or tackling the Henderson Bridge) is to walk to the small Whole Foods on Waterman Street.

We need a little more background: I was born and raised in England and lived there part of the year even after I moved to Providence in the 1980s, and I’m used to walking to the store.

So walk I usually do.

The cashier asked if I have Amazon Prime, but when I showed her the little icon on my phone it wouldn’t work, as my account was in the UK. So in addition to paying Whole Food’s high prices (my neighbor calls it Whole Paycheck), I wasn’t getting those measly little discounts they sometimes offer.

Aha, I thought.

I was visiting my son in Massachusetts for the weekend, and what indeed are sons for other than to fix their mother’s technical problems.

So we closed my Amazon UK account (big mistake) and opened a US account. What neither of us realized was that my Kindle account was also in the UK—and whoosh—about 100 books disappeared.

In the week or so since this disaster I have called Amazon US twice, Amazon UK three times to no avail.

“You canceled the account. They’re gone,” I was told time and again. As had a considerable amount of my money.

This cannot be true. Electronic and digital data do not just disappear.

I’m asking my fellow members of LLC if they can suggest strategies for recovering my books, some of which I’ve not yet read (ordered for Bob Martin’s Historical Fiction group) or which I’d love to read again.

Suggestions please!

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From Ruth Guyer: On Hope Street

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Radio Daze

by Helen Hawkins

We are all seeking solace in these turbulent times. My main form of solace for a very long time has been the radio. My dad probably passed an old radio to me when I was about five years old. I am so grateful now to have a photo of myself and my enormous radio, plus trusty flashlight.

In my family, we were three girls - all six years apart. Looking back that was odd compared to the more normal birth order in other families. Ours was like three only -- child families with a little bit of overlap! When I was six, my older sister Aggie went off to Smith College. When I was 12, my middle sister Mary also went off to Smith. Happily then, my parents were busy working, and were running out of steam, so they didn’t give me much trouble!

Perhaps you will join me in going down memory lane as I recall my most favorite radio shows when I was little. For the most part, I enjoyed the sit coms. (My daughter Rachael understood this expression to mean “sit and be calm.” Makes sense!) Anyhow, those were Our Miss Books, The Jack Benny Show, Amos N Andy, One Man’s Family and Abbott and Costello. Another beloved show was The Halls of Ivy starring Ronald Colman. I fell in love with his voice immediately. He was British, and his voice was described as “bewitching, finely moderated, and resonant.” I was in love even before I saw his drop-dead handsome face on the big screen! The show went to TV for a few years, but we did not have a TV until later on. I remember going to see Captain Video and his Video Rangers at my neighbor’s house! I think the theme song for that show was “Night on Bald Mountain” by Mussorgsky. That piece still gives me chills!

Because I was the youngest child, and my parents were around 40 when I was born, the thought has occurred to me that I was a September Surprise! Yet, I was warmly welcomed on Governors Island. My mother enjoyed telling her friends that my birth on the Army post was less expensive for the family than the delivery of our cat’s kittens. She must have had complications? As we all know, the firstborn receives a lot of attention, and many candid or even professional photographs are taken. In my case, honestly there are only a handful of photos of me still hanging around. But I am very grateful that my dad took those shots of me:

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In my bed with my beloved radio

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Holding a practically life-sized doll, a birthday present when I was around 9 or so

At left: Rehoboth Beach being pounded by the waves (but with a huge life jacket on)

Otherwise, would we have evidence that I really did have a childhood?

Now that the concerns of our last chapter in life are staring us in the face, and so much of life has already been lived, we become more nostalgic and try to return to those earlier places, those fragrances, those memories from when we were very young. I spent much of my childhood climbing trees. I loved finding a way up, and then I enjoyed being up there, unobserved, and taking in the new perspective. The only downside of those long needled white pines was the pitch (not sap) which I invariably would get into. Here at North Farm, there is a grouping of those trees as I round the bend to walk down to our boathouse. I see how perfectly spaced the branches are for a climber, and I notice the pitch. But best of all, I hear the wind making a familiar noise as it connects with the branches way up high.

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Rhode Island Wind Ensemble

Celebrate an old-time Christmas Concert with the Rhode Island Wind Ensemble in the grand finale concert of Scituate’s “Christmas in the Village” weekend-long celebration. Produced by local legend Lt. General Reggie Centracchio, this festive concert features holiday music from around the world, special performances by vocalist Kelly Lennon, students from Scituate High School’s music program, an audience sing-along of carols, Master of Ceremonies Mike Montecalvo, and Santa Claus himself!

Sunday, December 15, 2024
2-4 PM
Scituate High School

www.riwe.org

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LONGING

From Ruth Guyer: The dog is Athena (our “grand-dog”) on Thanksgiving afternoon; she is an English mastiff (and HUGE!!)

The Power of Song

by Bob Kemp

There is power in a song:

The smile of recognition,

The flood of memories,

The surge of emotion,

The journey in time.

Image by freepik

WONDROUS DECEMBER

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